ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT PROGRAM - by Suzanne Clothier
The aggression problem you are experiencing
is a symptom of a confused relationship between
you and your dog. Surprisingly, this is not
uncommon, and it is understandable since
two very different species are involved.
Just as cultural differences exist between
people, there are strong cultural differences
between dogs and humans, which can lead to
serious misunderstandings. Your human perception
of your behavior toward the dog is not the
same as your dog's perception of the same
behavior. For example, you may pet your dog
simply because you love him and want him
to feel good. But unless that attention comes
as a result of the dog complying with your
rules and wishes, he may perceive the attention
as proof that you rank lower than he does
in the family structure.
When dogs deal with other dogs, animals higher
on the pecking order may elicit attention
from lower ranking animals. Lower ranking
animals rarely elicit attention from superiors,
but when they do, they also "give"
appeasement behaviors (such as groveling
on their belly, laying down, licking, etc.)
to the higher ranking animal. When combined
with many other mixed messages, something
as simple as petting your dog whenever he
demands without having to give you anything
in return may result in your dog believing
he ranks higher than you. This in turns leads
him to believe that he does not need to respect
or listen to you unless it suits him. Thus,
when you try to insist, he may react aggressively.
Earning your dog's respect requires you to
act in ways that he sees as worthy of respect
- and the easiest way to do that is to control
resources (the things that matter to him)
and only provide them to him when he is cooperating
with you. No need to deprive the dog, just
the need to have him earn what he wants.
The most powerful tool you have to change
your dog's behavior is your attention. DO
NOT use any kind of physical correction (grabbing
the lead or collar or the dog himself) to
force the dog to obey you. Instead, walk
away, refusing to acknowledge his existence
for a few minutes. Then, in a nice tone of
voice, ask again. If it is something the
dog really wants, such as his food, playtime,
a walk or whatever, you will usually get
his cooperation within a few tries. Eventually,
this new rule starts to sink in - "The
ONLY time you get what you want is when you
cooperate."
Reward all positive behavior with praise.
When withdrawing attention is not possible,
or leads to the dog increasing his objectionable
behavior, try putting him outside alone in
the yard for a few minutes, or into a room
or his crate for a time out. Use a treat
if needed to get him outside or into the
crate. This does not reward him for disregarding
any previous commands, but does reward him
for cooperating with your last request of
"outside" or "in your crate."
Whenever you find yourself frustrated, give
yourself (and the dog!) a break with some
time out. Dogs are easily confused by emotions
such as anger and fear (their own or yours),
so if you lose your calm, sensible approach,
avoid further problems and separate yourself
and the dog briefly until you feel ready
to try again.
Be aware that as you change the rules, the
problem behavior may escalate briefly as
the dog pushes harder to see what the limits
are. It is helpful to write down a daily
record of aggressive incidents so that you
can begin to see the patterns of frequency
(how many times does the behavior occur?)
and intensity (how far does the behavior
go?). Changes will not occur overnight, but
gradually over a period of time. A written
record helps during times of frustration.
For example, when it seems that nothing is
happening at all, the written record may
show that in fact, the behavior has decreased
from 9 times a day to only 4. This is a significant
improvement!
To resolve this behavior problem, you will
need to change your own behavior so that
your dog can begin to clearly perceive his
place in the family structure as the least
ranking member, and under the control of
all family members, including children. All
family members must agree on this program,
and be faithful in adhering to it, or you
will doom the dog to failure and possible
death.
NO FREE LUNCH - Your dog must learn to value
your attention, playtime and food. From now
on, he will receive nothing from you without
giving you something in return such as a
sit. For example, if he would like to be
petted or have a toy thrown, he must sit
promptly on the FIRST command. You may then
pet him briefly or throw the toy once or
twice. If he fails to sit, ignore him and
do not give him any attention or petting
for at least 3 minutes. You may then try
again.
TEACH SELF CONTROL - See the article on Teaching
Self Control as well as our booklet, "Understanding
& Teaching Self Control"
PUT ALL TOYS AWAY - Leave one or two toys
to chew on and that the dog can play with
by himself. Put all other toys away - these
will now be the toys that you use to play
with the dog. YOU will now choose play time,
when it begins, when it ends, and what the
rules are. DO play with your dog, but expect
him to do something before you throw the
toy. If he refuses, quietly get up, put the
toy away & ignore him for at least 10
minutes
PUT FOOD UNDER YOUR CONTROL - Free choice
feeding is a poor idea for dogs who are not
by nature meant to nibble all day. At specific
times, you feed your dog, and use this time
to make him really work for his meals. Remember,
you may be giving him a hundred or more "training
opportunities" in each bowl - make him
work by sitting for just 2-3 kibble in his
bowl at a time.
Have him sit, put 2-3 kibble in his bowl,
and insist that he stay sitting until you
tell him "OKAY, Eat". If he moves
or jumps toward the dish, calmly put it back
on the counter for a minute or so, then try
again. When he will politely sit and wait,
allow him to eat the few kibble, then reach
down, take the bowl, move a few feet away,
ask him to sit (and WAIT), put the bowl down
in the new spot and repeat with a few more
kibble. You can work with this all over the
house & yard, expecting him to sit and
wait politely in all rooms before receiving
a few kibble. The 10-15 minutes to "serve"
a meal in this fashion is time is well spent.
If he decides he'd rather not eat rather
than play by your rules, quietly put the
food away and then try again at the next
meal. Dogs will not starve themselves. It
may take up to 4-5 days before your dog decides
that he values his food enough to work with
you on your terms. If this seems a little
heartless, think hard about the reason this
step is necessary - you have allowed your
dog to get dangerously out of control, and
he has either bitten someone or threatened
to. A biting dog is not only a huge legal
liability, but sooner or later, may have
to be put to sleep. Being firm at this stage
could save your dog's life.
CONSIDER CHANGING FOODS - Your dog may not
have skin problems, diarrhea, vomiting or
other obvious signs of allergies, but in
my experience, behavior problems, irritability,
poor appetite, excessive stool and/or gas,
recurring hot spots or ear infections point
to possible food allergies or food intolerances.
Many dogs receive far too much protein, which
is converted into energy which can be a problem
if the dog has no acceptable outlet for that
energy. First, evaluate the protein - see
if you can lower it by switching to another
food. Try a food whose main ingredients are
unlike your current dog food. If, for example,
your current dog food contains chicken and
corn, seek out lamb & rice, turkey &
barley, duck & potato, etc. Also read
the labels on treats - full of calories,
high protein & stuffed with chemicals,
sugars, salts & preservatives, many dog
treats are not a great addition to your dog's
diet.
EXERCISE - A huge percentage of problem dogs
do not receive sufficient exercise. Increase
your dog's exercise by long walks, jogging,
playing in the back yard or whatever he enjoys,
and keep it regular and vigorous. Remember
- unused energy has to go somewhere, and
a tired dog is almost always a good dog.
WHEN IN DOUBT, WALK OUT. Use your dog's natural
desire for your attention to work for you.
If the dog becomes aggressive when asked
to do something, simply withdraw your attention.
This may mean you need to go into another
room and shut the door for a few minutes.
When you re-enter the room, use a treat to
call the dog to you, then ask him to sit
or lay down, rewarding him for showing you
his willingness to work with you. If he does
not comply, walk away again.
USE TRAINING EQUIPMENT - Rather than grab
a dog who is misbehaving, you are better
off leaving a training collar and lead on
him while you are with him. (Never on an
unattended dog.) If appropriate, quietly
pick up the leash and gently reinforce the
command. Be calm but firm.
ANTICIPATE PROBLEMS - Knowing what situations
may trigger your dog's aggression and his
body language changes will allow you to prevent
this behavior from occurring. For example,
if your dog is aggressive when people enter
the house, have him on lead and sitting as
they enter, instead of trying to stop him
from running around out of control and biting.
Whenever possible, help the dog substitute
desirable behavior for his problem behavior
and PRAISE!
TRAIN - Initially, you may need to work on
your dog's behavior and your relationship
with your dog in private lessons. Once your
dog's basic problems are under control, enroll
in a basic obedience class to help your dog
become a more enjoyable companion, and improve
your overall relationship with your dog.
Remember, training is a lifetime process,
not a quick fix. The sooner you begin, the
more years you will have to truly enjoy your
dog.
NOTE: This is used to assist clients whose
dogs are exhibiting aggression related to
power issues between dog & owner. This
is NOT an approach for fearful dogs exhibiting
defense aggression (though some techniques
are similar) or for dogs whose aggression
springs from biochemical or physical problems.
PLEASE: If your dog is exhibiting aggressive
behavior, immediately seek the assistance
of a competent, experienced trainer or behaviorist.
Failure to do so could cost your dog his
life! Your veterinarian, local animal shelter/rescue,
kennel clubs or your dog's breeder may be
able to refer you. You may also try a Trainer
Search at the Association of Pet Dog Trainers
website www.apdt.com